Begin your step with patience and full effort

Everything in this world have their beginning and also an end as well as the reason for it to occurs. However, its sometime hard for us to make our kick start to do something new.It would also come with pressure but at the end of it theres a reward waiting for us to enjoy the satisfaction that we will gain after put all of our effort to achieve and reach the end of the journey. As example, we can see the people who participate in the marathon or iron man competition. They have to pass all the obstacle that they required to overcome in order to reach the finishing line. This is the same with our life. We can assume that our life is a journey which full of obstacle that we have to overcome in order to achieve the achievement that we desired. some people seems can't afford or can't bear the pressure that was being putted on their shoulder. I'm not talking about this matter as a motivator or what, but as the person who was also feels the same pressure. I'm still a normal human being. Have my own sensitivity have my own feeling. Now, back to the topic, the people sometimes can't accept the fact that they had been blessed by the problem or obstacle in their life by Him. He want to show we that He still care about us. He didn't left us alone. Some people often said that " I was alone in this world. Nobody want to help me to solve my problem." This is the wrong perception about the term alone. Actually, there's nobody born to be alone. As we, human are socialize animal we live in a society which need among each other. You was never alone as you always have Him as your companion. I admit that sometimes the pressure was so hard until we can't stand the pressure especially when it relate with our relationship or feeling matter. That would make us become so upset. But always remember that there's always a solution for the problem. The matter of the solution is what are the solution that we have? Not only the matter of how, it also relate on when as time playing their own role in solve the problem. So its the matter of time. Either the solution will come to us in a short time or it required a longer time. But both of this time period have their own advantages. Lets see.. If the problem solves in the shirt time, then there will be less pressure that we might feels and we can focus on other things that is also important in our life. In the other hands, if the solution come very slowly, we would have time to thinks on why this things happen to you? Why not this problem happen to your other friend? Hence, in here there's a brainstorming and it may make our critical thinking to develop well. I'm not saying that if we have a problem, we should delay it and take it easy about it. Theres a problem that we can solve right on the time as the problem happen. However, theres a problem that required us to thinks deeply as every decision that we take in our life would effect our life in the future.

For a person to make a kick start it maybe hard, as he still in the trial mode where he didn't aspect on what result that he may get at the end. In life, its the matter of probability where anything can happen. So, its sometime worth to try for something new. In student context, the problem to adopt the new surrounding and environment always happen for the new student who still in their time to suit their new life as university student. My advice to them, just be patient as this critical time. Always remember that we was never be alone...

Transformation along with time

Each step we take in our life would cause a transformation in our life. Either its the good one or the bad one. Recently, I was shocked with my old friend transformation. There's a lot of things happen to them for almost 2 years now. The big question mark in this matter is How big the impact of transformation would take place in your life. Lets take an example of a caterpillar. A caterpillar which may look disgust especially for the girls. They would see a caterpillar as an insect that was make them feels disgust and don't want to come near. If the caterpillar can talk, it may said that, he's still on his way to transform itself into a creature that may make girl love them. And its true that after a long process, the caterpillar would become a butterfly which was looks so beautiful and can make the girls feels happy once the time they see them. However, how many people know and realize that its was originally from the caterpillar which they hate most? Now, lets take this example to our daily life. Nowdays, the people seems easily forget about who they are and from where they come from? This is one of the example for bad transformation. We must accept that not everything in this world would bring a good benefit only. Anything in this world would also bring along their bad effect. But people may only consider it as good as the benefit is more than the bad effect.

Look back at the transformation that occurs in the people around us and think on how can they changes to the way they be right now. But its look like a trend now for a people would become jealous when other people achieve a better achievement from them. They would try to make sure the people who get the better achievement down and they would stay in the top of them. I think they should thinks on how they can achieve the same stage with the people through the effort that they would try to make. For example, a student saw his friend become a top scorer in the examination and has stable pointer. So what should this student do? Poisoning the student who was clever than him? Become a backstabber to the person? Off course all these things would succeed and the clever student would go down, but the bad impact for what he had done would become greater than the benefit that he may gain. Think about this, the clever student may feels betray and hold grudge against the student who betray him and this will going on and on. Can you see the chain of grudge between this two people which may take many year before settle down? Its nothing but only bad effect. Both student would lose in the battle. When the question came to me, I would give this answer. Try to get a win-win situation where both student would get benefit from it. The clever student can help the other student to study and the other student would help him in the matter that the clever student don't know about. Not everyone in this world knows everything. There must be something that they didn't know. This situation would help both the student and no grudge would happen.

Sacrifice: Consequences and Effect

As the day passed, without we know and realize, we already wrote the new chapter in our life. The story that maybe the greatest one or the horrible one. Not possible it is would become the happy one or might be the sad one. As the new chapter going on all over and over again, there must be a sacrifice that we need to do. Its between one of this two element that is physical or mentally sacrifice. However, its also possible to have both of this element to become combined as one.

In our life, we will always face with the choices that we have to made. When we talking about sacrifice that always surround us as an important element in order to make us thinks more critically about something that happen. The big question mark is in the question of how should we know that its worth for us to doing sacrifice? This situation would require us to do so many calculation and also assumption in order to make sure that we are sacrificing for the right thing with the right intention. Some of us may thinks that people who sacrificing their precious things in life as a stupid. I thinks when its time has come for us to sacrificing, please do the sacrifice. However, as I always mention before in my previous article, everything in this world must have a barrier or a limit to make sure that it would not cross the line that had been set up. For example, a farmer want to build a farm to put his cow, goat and cattle all together in one place. The farmer must build a barrier or border for all of these animal that is, the cow, goat and the cattle. Can u imagine if there was not border to separate these animal? Off course the cow may step on the cattle which was smaller than it. So in here, we need to have a barrier or wall to limit our sacrifice.

How can we put all this thing together in our daily life as a student. This is the public opinion so, if I doing some mistake in my statement, please tell me so that I can correct it out. Back to the topic, as a student I admit that we have to do lots of sacrifice in order to get the great result or achievement that we wish we can achieve. However, not all the things in this world we can get easily some of them need some effort to achieve it. The effort that we had done is our sacrifice. When the other still sleep or walking around with their friends we sacrifice our time for a while to read a book to get more knowledge. All of those thing can wait but achievement or success would not always waiting for you! You are the one who should chase it our and grab it with both of your hands and make sure that it will always be with you! So here, we can see the need for us, to sacrifice and believe it or not, until now we had already doing sacrifice in our life. Try to count what are things that you had to do which you have to put aside another thing? Not only that, try to think if the result from it is worth the sacrifice that we had made? Take a short time to think and conclude yourself.

Live have to go on

There was too much incident that happen this week along with the problem and trouble that seems stick with me all the day. But I still can smile enjoy listen to my favorite song, go to the library as usual. Its like he want to test me with so much trouble and incident that make me feels weaker and beg for His mercy to help me out. some say that this is the way how he want to teach us and He also want us to thinks on what are the benefit or the moral value that i had learned from the incident. Our live is a story, just like the one that we always see on the television or movie. The main character is us and the director is Him who would determine what will happen next in our life. We just follow the flow of our life. Sometime we need to against the flow that had bring us. That's true because sometime we have to against the flow. Some people say that life is a gamble. I thinks this statement not so right, but I think that life is a fight or we can say it as a war. To win this war, we have to thinks of a good strategy to win the battle. Without a good strategy, we will definitely lose in the battle. Not only we may lost ourselves but it will also cost our pride. However, in life, it has its own up and down. We will not always be in the top. When its time for us to be in the bottom, then we will be there. When we was in the bottom, its doesn't mean that we are weak and can't do anything to save ourselves and bring ourselves back to the top. We still can do something, but the question, what can we do? Off course, we have to try harder to be in the top again. In order to get back to the top, we must remember that we have to do it in the right way. The right way in here is for not to insult other people, do the bad deeds against the people as this will cause another effect to happen. Even we may succeed to be back in the top, but believe me you will not last longer on the top as the other people would try to bring you back to the bottom. I can say that this is the punishment that you have to faced as a result of what you had done to the people in the way to get back in the top.
So, how should we do to get back in the top? We have to do our best in whatever we do in order to get back to our normal life. Remember that the luck and bad luck is the ingredient of our life. Without it, our life become tasteless. Just like when we cooking something, we must put some ingredient in order to make it tasty right? Its the same with our life, we must bear to face difficulties that we feels and take it as the ingredient of life. Thinks that the problem as a fog that will faded away and after the fog had disappear, the sunshine will take over it and there, you will smile brightly as the bright of the sunshine. Other than that, always remember that in the difficulty we have accommodation, and in accommodation, we have difficulty. The best thing we have to do is just continue our life as usual, and we must becoem patient and also pray for guidance from Him who knows more on how to solve the problem.

Responsibilty : Challenge that being burdened on our shoulder

When i talk about responsibility, what would come out in your mind? Maybe the burden? maybe the popularity? and even the admire that may come to you. Now we are in the era of popularity. I thinks its true, as people will try their best to become well know and famous. But become the people on the top of society or organization not as sweet and enjoyable as it may look like. There's a huge burden awaits for us to being lies on our shoulder. Therefore, before you announce ourself to become a candidate of an election or a high post in our society or whatever, we have to look inside of ourself. Did we have the ability to carries the burden that will put on our shoulder? One big question that may appear in our mind that: How hard of How heavy the burden that we bear to hold? I can say that some of the don't like to be a leader as they afraid that they can't do their job as a leader correctly or wisely. Indeed this is true, but the question would come for a leader who had been chosen by the people without he come and naming himself to become a candidate of that post. The Answer for that question is take the responsibility as a reward of gift from God that had choose him to become a leader. Remind that anything that happen in this world happen for their own reason and off course by the His permission. Without His permission, nothing would happen. So what should this leader do is just do their job nicely and wisely as all the deed that we done in here, will being written in our Book Of Deed that will showed to us in the Judgement Day. Instead of the responsibility that the leader had to remember of, there are still some that a leader should remind of that is the post that he get now, not permanently be him forever. We will not live forever as we are not the immortal. When our time come to us, we will be died too. So there's no point for us to become arrogant with our post as people who holds power.

Opening of a new blog and current issue..

Hurm.. I guess its quite long since my last post in here.. Some of my friends says that, it seems like I was missing somewhere. Does someone snatch you somewhere? I can't stop myself laughing when I read her message. Nowdays, the life in campus become so hard and we can say interesting as the newly student had come here from all over the state. Some of them come from peninsular and the neighboring state that is Sarawak. Me myself got 2 friends from sarawak. Ok talk about the new student, I guess some of them never be here and they may still feel shock cause of the new environment that they had faced in here. I admit it when the first time I was here, I feels shock to due to the new surrounding and environment on campus which was sooo differs from school. I feels burden with a high responsibility which lies on my shoulder. I guess that what they feels now. However, there are some of the new student also known as 'freshie' tried to be smart and acting like they are the senior until they don't mind on what they talking about and who they react to. This is the sad phenomenon as the value of respect each other seems slowly faded. What happen to the value of respecting the elders among the nowdays teenager? They seems don't mind on what they do which will hurt the feeling of us (the seniors). Maybe the incorrect ways to introducing them to their new environment is one of the reason why this thing happen. I'm not saying that my opinion is right in here thats why I said it maybe the reason, but as I saw them walking around proudly with their new status as University students and didn't respect their own senior, I guess that something should be done by the authority to solve this matter. Punishing is not the correct choice I guess as they are the teenager who still in their way to shape their character in the future. I thinks that the right way is by giving them advice and at the same time make they realize that the student in the campus live as a family. We need each other and we can't live on our own.

Be patient when anything bad happen to you.

As the day passed after the semester break end, I continue back my life in UiTm. What different in this semester I thinks is the challenge that I have to faced. The semester seems so tough for me and make me can't resists the challenge. What can i do for now is pray that everything would become fine. I still remember that I had read in a book that says that God had already deciding the heavy burden for His servant so that one day, after the burden had been lifted from his shoulder, he would smile brightly and thanks Him for His mercy. Other than than, some people might say that this is the Way God want to called us back after we had maybe forgot about Him due to our daily activity that are so tight. hence, He make us suffer so that we will come back to Him and beg for His mercy to help us to face with the problem that occurs. I guess, one thing that we should remember well is the problem will not always be with us. There will come a time where the happiness surround our environment. Hardship and happiness are 2 things that always come to human whether he like it or not. Do we have any choice? No. We don't have any choice but to face it or we run from it. Thinking on running when a problem happen to us, does by running from it the problem would disappear like that? Does it like in a sport competition where the more fast we run, the higher the chance to win? Off course not! When hardship happen to us, we should be like a rugby player who aims bring the ball to the end even he was sure that their opponent would never let them to do so. So do we in our daily life. We should faced our problem as brave as the rugby player faced his opponent. We should learn on the tactics for solve our problem just like the rugby player who learns the tactics of playing rugby to win. Now days, we always hear on the cases of the people who can't stand the pressure in their live make a bad decision to end their problem by commits suicide. They thought that if they died, the problem would solve. This is a wrong perception. Even they had died, they also have family who would face the problem. Didn't they thinks about their family, wife or children? Some of them taking the same decision as the person who commits suicide, but thinks a while about the people perception. What can I say about this, thinks deeply before you do something.