Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Just a quote of my heart

In our journey in this life. We may seen something happen to us. However we can't interpret our feeling on how that thing should be done or finished off. Human mind and feeling is two related component of human being. Even though both of this thing is an abstract thing, mean it can't be seen, touched but we can feel it. We can't describe it we even can't picture it. It may possible for a photographer to illustrate a pain of a person who was depressed or broken hearted, but when u ask them to paint a picture on the broken hearted, can they do that? Its difficult enough, The pain inside is such greater than the outside pain. The cut deep enough. It can be proven in history or classic literature such as in Romeo and Juliet, Cleopatra and the other classic literature that would illustrate the pain of losing someone we love. However, it never crossed our mind that we used to be happy, we used to be enjoying our life better. The incident which is bad and good, luck and bad luck is two things that would help us to balance our life. This two things will balance our life by teaching us how to passing through the test of life. This is the real test. Take an example, we lost something important to us, then we must feels sad. However, should we be happy that we still standing, we still breathing? The main point is to appreciate what had happen to you. Through the bad incident, you will be able to create a good things.

Sometimes, we may meet someone who used to hurt us, either physically or mentally. Being hurt physically is not bad enough other than mentally injured by someone. Usually we would found there are no way out for mentally injured other than forgiving what they had done to you and continue your life without them. Continue your life just like before the incident happen would be hard as the incident would change everything inside of you. From your way of think until how u react over the incident.found someone to replace the empty place in your heart may cause other impact. Its may not the good impact, as your heart may being motivated by the desire of having a revenge or the emptiness that you feel in your heart. My advice to myself and other people, please don't accept someone too fast. Know him/her well, thanks for her differences because from the differences between both of you, u can complete her life..

as for me.. my heart will heal after the bad incident and I was lucky for having several people around of me giving me support so that I can move on. will be continue after I have a good news to tell.. =)

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Kind heart and Sincerity

lot of people keep doubting about how can sincere can help them to pass through their life. however, when we think deeply into the matter, I think that its truely important to have this two value in our life. Someone had said to me a long time ago, when we be nice with other people.. We don't have to tell them, I'm sincere with you. But let them feel on their own that we are sincere towards them. Pure sincere will be feels by the other party. We don't have to show it. But they will feel it on their own. Can you see now how both of this things are related together? Without kind heart, no sincere will happen. However, as I always mention in the previous post. No body in this would born to be purely bad guy and bad girl. I believe that there would be some kindness in their heart. We are human being provided with kindness in our heart. So lets not blame on the person only. But keep on thinking and examining the surrounding that may influence his emotion. Human being is a complex creature that God had ever create as we have the ability to manipulate things around us. For example, let we see how human being can manipulate metals for their own purpose such as for mold ring and so on. However, as I mention that human being is complex as they can manipulate thing around them to make something bad. lets take a look at the metal that had been used as example just now, human can make weapon from the metal that will guide to murder in their own society that would leave destruction behind their action. Some of us may asked, if its true that human being are full with love and kindness, why should this happen? I left that on your judgement and together we may discuss it further. So the big question among all is, how we can help to bring back the humanity among our people that had lack of the two values that I had mentioned above?