In our journey in this life. We may seen something happen to us. However we can't interpret our feeling on how that thing should be done or finished off. Human mind and feeling is two related component of human being. Even though both of this thing is an abstract thing, mean it can't be seen, touched but we can feel it. We can't describe it we even can't picture it. It may possible for a photographer to illustrate a pain of a person who was depressed or broken hearted, but when u ask them to paint a picture on the broken hearted, can they do that? Its difficult enough, The pain inside is such greater than the outside pain. The cut deep enough. It can be proven in history or classic literature such as in Romeo and Juliet, Cleopatra and the other classic literature that would illustrate the pain of losing someone we love. However, it never crossed our mind that we used to be happy, we used to be enjoying our life better. The incident which is bad and good, luck and bad luck is two things that would help us to balance our life. This two things will balance our life by teaching us how to passing through the test of life. This is the real test. Take an example, we lost something important to us, then we must feels sad. However, should we be happy that we still standing, we still breathing? The main point is to appreciate what had happen to you. Through the bad incident, you will be able to create a good things.
Sometimes, we may meet someone who used to hurt us, either physically or mentally. Being hurt physically is not bad enough other than mentally injured by someone. Usually we would found there are no way out for mentally injured other than forgiving what they had done to you and continue your life without them. Continue your life just like before the incident happen would be hard as the incident would change everything inside of you. From your way of think until how u react over the incident.found someone to replace the empty place in your heart may cause other impact. Its may not the good impact, as your heart may being motivated by the desire of having a revenge or the emptiness that you feel in your heart. My advice to myself and other people, please don't accept someone too fast. Know him/her well, thanks for her differences because from the differences between both of you, u can complete her life..
as for me.. my heart will heal after the bad incident and I was lucky for having several people around of me giving me support so that I can move on. will be continue after I have a good news to tell.. =)
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