Saturday, April 21, 2012

When we playing with things called EMOTION

In our life, someway we might meet with some people which would trigger our desire to know the very well. The person make us feels so hungry to know more about him/her closely. However, in our way to get know about the person there would be some clash that would happen during the process. The process would known as the process of knowing each other. The person might feel the same way as we thought, maybe not. Sometimes, the process would not getting well due to some unwanted or unintentionally collision that had happen during the process.the collision that happen might cause big or small amount of impact based on how we interpret the collision and also how we control the collision. It was based our own way of think that would determine how the impact would going on. Either it was bad one, or might become bad but when we think deeply, it would become the good one. As I mention before, its depends on ourselves on how to make the impact was good or bad. For example, the person who we want to get know was getting angry as the result of an action that we had done to him/her. The action might not the big one, but it would carries a lot of impact to the opposition. Again, this is how the matter of our mind set would become important. If the person was a positive person, he would think on why this thing would happen and they would might blame on himself for the result of his action. However, when I'm saying that he was blame himself, it was not a type of blaming that make his to doing something which is beyond his own ability or the normal norm of human. He would take the action or the result of what happen to him as one of the lesson which he would gain benefit from it in the future. For a negative person, he would completely think on the different point of view which would make him think that the reason behind the action of the person towards him was completely happen on his own fault. Thus he would keep on blaming on himself. As a result, there we go.. Some of abnormal human behavior would being commit by the person. As a person who would always being played with emotion in our life, sometimes we would find our self trapped in our own emotion and we didn't find any way out from his misery, torture and self blaming that what happen is all his fault.

I thinks the best way to stand aside form this excessive emotion problem is to keep staying positive. It would be fine to look things in neutral view which would evaluate things from both side of the problem. That should be the best way to avoid our emotion from pushing us too much as emotion would always make us doing the wrong thing sometimes.However, if we are able to manage our on emotion balance it with our Intellectual Quotation (IQ) it would be the best for us. Don't let the emotion burn your ability to use your IQ! Don't let it controlling your life. Look for someone who will to guide you to the better ways and the most importantly, you should enjoying your life as your life is not a play! So, better move on. One more thing, never give up if you had someone which was worth you. Then don't stop chasing the person!

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