Look back at the transformation that occurs in the people around us and think on how can they changes to the way they be right now. But its look like a trend now for a people would become jealous when other people achieve a better achievement from them. They would try to make sure the people who get the better achievement down and they would stay in the top of them. I think they should thinks on how they can achieve the same stage with the people through the effort that they would try to make. For example, a student saw his friend become a top scorer in the examination and has stable pointer. So what should this student do? Poisoning the student who was clever than him? Become a backstabber to the person? Off course all these things would succeed and the clever student would go down, but the bad impact for what he had done would become greater than the benefit that he may gain. Think about this, the clever student may feels betray and hold grudge against the student who betray him and this will going on and on. Can you see the chain of grudge between this two people which may take many year before settle down? Its nothing but only bad effect. Both student would lose in the battle. When the question came to me, I would give this answer. Try to get a win-win situation where both student would get benefit from it. The clever student can help the other student to study and the other student would help him in the matter that the clever student don't know about. Not everyone in this world knows everything. There must be something that they didn't know. This situation would help both the student and no grudge would happen.
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
Transformation along with time
Each step we take in our life would cause a transformation in our life. Either its the good one or the bad one. Recently, I was shocked with my old friend transformation. There's a lot of things happen to them for almost 2 years now. The big question mark in this matter is How big the impact of transformation would take place in your life. Lets take an example of a caterpillar. A caterpillar which may look disgust especially for the girls. They would see a caterpillar as an insect that was make them feels disgust and don't want to come near. If the caterpillar can talk, it may said that, he's still on his way to transform itself into a creature that may make girl love them. And its true that after a long process, the caterpillar would become a butterfly which was looks so beautiful and can make the girls feels happy once the time they see them. However, how many people know and realize that its was originally from the caterpillar which they hate most? Now, lets take this example to our daily life. Nowdays, the people seems easily forget about who they are and from where they come from? This is one of the example for bad transformation. We must accept that not everything in this world would bring a good benefit only. Anything in this world would also bring along their bad effect. But people may only consider it as good as the benefit is more than the bad effect.
Look back at the transformation that occurs in the people around us and think on how can they changes to the way they be right now. But its look like a trend now for a people would become jealous when other people achieve a better achievement from them. They would try to make sure the people who get the better achievement down and they would stay in the top of them. I think they should thinks on how they can achieve the same stage with the people through the effort that they would try to make. For example, a student saw his friend become a top scorer in the examination and has stable pointer. So what should this student do? Poisoning the student who was clever than him? Become a backstabber to the person? Off course all these things would succeed and the clever student would go down, but the bad impact for what he had done would become greater than the benefit that he may gain. Think about this, the clever student may feels betray and hold grudge against the student who betray him and this will going on and on. Can you see the chain of grudge between this two people which may take many year before settle down? Its nothing but only bad effect. Both student would lose in the battle. When the question came to me, I would give this answer. Try to get a win-win situation where both student would get benefit from it. The clever student can help the other student to study and the other student would help him in the matter that the clever student don't know about. Not everyone in this world knows everything. There must be something that they didn't know. This situation would help both the student and no grudge would happen.
Look back at the transformation that occurs in the people around us and think on how can they changes to the way they be right now. But its look like a trend now for a people would become jealous when other people achieve a better achievement from them. They would try to make sure the people who get the better achievement down and they would stay in the top of them. I think they should thinks on how they can achieve the same stage with the people through the effort that they would try to make. For example, a student saw his friend become a top scorer in the examination and has stable pointer. So what should this student do? Poisoning the student who was clever than him? Become a backstabber to the person? Off course all these things would succeed and the clever student would go down, but the bad impact for what he had done would become greater than the benefit that he may gain. Think about this, the clever student may feels betray and hold grudge against the student who betray him and this will going on and on. Can you see the chain of grudge between this two people which may take many year before settle down? Its nothing but only bad effect. Both student would lose in the battle. When the question came to me, I would give this answer. Try to get a win-win situation where both student would get benefit from it. The clever student can help the other student to study and the other student would help him in the matter that the clever student don't know about. Not everyone in this world knows everything. There must be something that they didn't know. This situation would help both the student and no grudge would happen.
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