Perfection is within us...

It seems its a long time since my last post here in my blog. Since that I don't have big follower for the blog then I thinks it doesn't matter whether I post something in my blog or not. Besides, I will facing my final examination soon. So I guess that its way more important than posting in my blog. This week I had been contacted by my friend from UAE, it seems that she facing with some trouble about the decision that she must made for her future. As i always mention in my previous post, our future is something that we can't confirm and deal with it. I mean, the future is something that we can't see through our own eyes and also can't be reach by our mind. So I says to her that she must construct a plan for her future very well in order to ensure that her future will become bright, or else it will become a disasterous thing that she will experienced. Not that thing or issue that I'm going to discuss in here, but before that let me continues with my friends story. Then she come with a story of the "perfect" girl in her school mocking her own teacher not behind of the teacher's back but she express it openly. Here we got some issue to discuss. Look, does it academic matter most in our life. I mean do the academic achievement allows us to looks down at others who was below us? Come on. Academic achievement doesn't make sense at all in this matter. If someone is highly academic achiever, and her attitude is good, then that is the true achievement. If only the academic is good, but the attitude is not good at all, then what does the academic make sense? She also got the "perfect" girl award in the school. Man, I think this school may make a big mistake by choosing this girl. I'm not insulting anyone. But technically, this is the fact. Furthermore, I thinks that no one in this world can being considered as Perfect. because the perfection only for Him. The one who create this wonderful world. So how come this girl with that kind of attitude got the award? I thinks the criteria for the award should be revised that it should include the aspect of personality of the candidate. I thinks that it should be balanced between academic and also personality. Because I strongly thinks that there is no use that we had achieve highly performance of academic but our attitude if far more than being considered as good. Then come to the issue of perfect. How can this can being considered as an issue? Perfect.. Is one of the most desirable word that every person want in this world. Ask anyone you meet and ask them question of whether they want to have perfection in their life? They will answer yes. However, we know that in our way to chase perfection, it become disaster. For example, we can see how many person in this world will to not eating just want to get the perfect curve for their body? How many women will to doing plastic surgery that comes with 1001 probability and effect? see?? this is cause by the ossesion to become perfect for human, but doesn't they realize that they had already perfect without they have to doing plastic surgery and so on? See the verse in Qoran of surah Al-Tin, verse 4: Verily, We created man of the best stature (mould).. ( Cited from http://www.noblequran.com/translation/surah95.html) So, why must we chase the perfection if the perfection already exist in ourself?

So I thinks that we should realize who we are and from what we had been created. Dun cahse too much perfection in our life. We have to look down at ourself. We are nothing compared with Him who knows every single things that will happen to us.

Opening of a new blog

It seems that my life become difficult than even this week as the burden loaded in my shoulder become heavier than ever. I thinks that I can't stand it anymore. with friends that seems don't want to understand me well. I think that it's time for me to shut my mouth off and silently listen to them. I don't want to disturb their life anymore, what happen to them is their business.. I got no right to disturb or interrupt their own life. They was grown up enough. However, being a grown up guy ain't always easy for us. There's a lot of things that we have to look out and evaluate it well. Hurm... This is difficult right? But, as I always say before, we need to consider that everything we do always come with dual effect that is good and bad.

Time to get off from the topic, forget the sadness and sorrow for a while. I want to leave a side my sorrow and sadness. Last saturday, I went to a motivation program that was organised by UiTM sabah counseling clun. Even that my name not listed as students that must be there, but my heart says that I must come to the workshop. Then, I come to the workshop. When I come in there, a sad view or I can say a disappointed view can be seen in the multipurpose hall, There's only a few students that come to the program! But, from what I know from the notice, the program is compulsory for the new student! Is the number of new student only hundreds? Its quite impossible as I know there's a lot of new student had been taken for this semester! If that is the only new students then the hostel would be enough to support the number of student. But what can I see is the number of student that come to the program not more than 300! where's the rest?? This program is beneficial for them as it will help them and also teach them how to study well. The right technique is important so that we can score well. In this program, I learned that there are 3 type of learning or studying skills that is affected by how we like to study that is auditory, visual and kinesthetic. All these 3 type of studying habit or skill if being applied well by the students will help them to get or know what is the right way for them to study. However, its quite disappointed that maybe the students don't interested to attend the program because there are no coupon provided for the student that come to the program. I'm not blame the people that didn't come to the program, but what I want to say is what we need most is the knowledge that we will get from the program, not the coupon.! The knowledge that we get from a program is so much more precious than the coupon that we get from the program. The coupon will last only for a semester then it will gone. Become rubbish that we will throw it out in the dustbin. But the knowledge that we got from a program if we know how to applied it, it will last forever in our mind. One more good things that we can get is, we can also teach other people on how to applying the method taht we had learn, as sharing is caring. However, as I awlays said, there's a limit for everything we done in this world. So, happy sharing everyone!!

Oh, I forgot to tell that I had open a new blog. I thinks that, its important for me to write in malays. So I open up a new blog that in Malays. If u want to invite it, the address is: teratakbiruitu.blogspot.com.. why I named the blog as teratak (hut)? I thinks that because that I want everyone shelter which is not so wealth and rich but full with humble.. so If u are interested to visit my blog, then u are welcomed to my blog!

Begin your step with patience and full effort

Everything in this world have their beginning and also an end as well as the reason for it to occurs. However, its sometime hard for us to make our kick start to do something new.It would also come with pressure but at the end of it theres a reward waiting for us to enjoy the satisfaction that we will gain after put all of our effort to achieve and reach the end of the journey. As example, we can see the people who participate in the marathon or iron man competition. They have to pass all the obstacle that they required to overcome in order to reach the finishing line. This is the same with our life. We can assume that our life is a journey which full of obstacle that we have to overcome in order to achieve the achievement that we desired. some people seems can't afford or can't bear the pressure that was being putted on their shoulder. I'm not talking about this matter as a motivator or what, but as the person who was also feels the same pressure. I'm still a normal human being. Have my own sensitivity have my own feeling. Now, back to the topic, the people sometimes can't accept the fact that they had been blessed by the problem or obstacle in their life by Him. He want to show we that He still care about us. He didn't left us alone. Some people often said that " I was alone in this world. Nobody want to help me to solve my problem." This is the wrong perception about the term alone. Actually, there's nobody born to be alone. As we, human are socialize animal we live in a society which need among each other. You was never alone as you always have Him as your companion. I admit that sometimes the pressure was so hard until we can't stand the pressure especially when it relate with our relationship or feeling matter. That would make us become so upset. But always remember that there's always a solution for the problem. The matter of the solution is what are the solution that we have? Not only the matter of how, it also relate on when as time playing their own role in solve the problem. So its the matter of time. Either the solution will come to us in a short time or it required a longer time. But both of this time period have their own advantages. Lets see.. If the problem solves in the shirt time, then there will be less pressure that we might feels and we can focus on other things that is also important in our life. In the other hands, if the solution come very slowly, we would have time to thinks on why this things happen to you? Why not this problem happen to your other friend? Hence, in here there's a brainstorming and it may make our critical thinking to develop well. I'm not saying that if we have a problem, we should delay it and take it easy about it. Theres a problem that we can solve right on the time as the problem happen. However, theres a problem that required us to thinks deeply as every decision that we take in our life would effect our life in the future.

For a person to make a kick start it maybe hard, as he still in the trial mode where he didn't aspect on what result that he may get at the end. In life, its the matter of probability where anything can happen. So, its sometime worth to try for something new. In student context, the problem to adopt the new surrounding and environment always happen for the new student who still in their time to suit their new life as university student. My advice to them, just be patient as this critical time. Always remember that we was never be alone...

Transformation along with time

Each step we take in our life would cause a transformation in our life. Either its the good one or the bad one. Recently, I was shocked with my old friend transformation. There's a lot of things happen to them for almost 2 years now. The big question mark in this matter is How big the impact of transformation would take place in your life. Lets take an example of a caterpillar. A caterpillar which may look disgust especially for the girls. They would see a caterpillar as an insect that was make them feels disgust and don't want to come near. If the caterpillar can talk, it may said that, he's still on his way to transform itself into a creature that may make girl love them. And its true that after a long process, the caterpillar would become a butterfly which was looks so beautiful and can make the girls feels happy once the time they see them. However, how many people know and realize that its was originally from the caterpillar which they hate most? Now, lets take this example to our daily life. Nowdays, the people seems easily forget about who they are and from where they come from? This is one of the example for bad transformation. We must accept that not everything in this world would bring a good benefit only. Anything in this world would also bring along their bad effect. But people may only consider it as good as the benefit is more than the bad effect.

Look back at the transformation that occurs in the people around us and think on how can they changes to the way they be right now. But its look like a trend now for a people would become jealous when other people achieve a better achievement from them. They would try to make sure the people who get the better achievement down and they would stay in the top of them. I think they should thinks on how they can achieve the same stage with the people through the effort that they would try to make. For example, a student saw his friend become a top scorer in the examination and has stable pointer. So what should this student do? Poisoning the student who was clever than him? Become a backstabber to the person? Off course all these things would succeed and the clever student would go down, but the bad impact for what he had done would become greater than the benefit that he may gain. Think about this, the clever student may feels betray and hold grudge against the student who betray him and this will going on and on. Can you see the chain of grudge between this two people which may take many year before settle down? Its nothing but only bad effect. Both student would lose in the battle. When the question came to me, I would give this answer. Try to get a win-win situation where both student would get benefit from it. The clever student can help the other student to study and the other student would help him in the matter that the clever student don't know about. Not everyone in this world knows everything. There must be something that they didn't know. This situation would help both the student and no grudge would happen.

Sacrifice: Consequences and Effect

As the day passed, without we know and realize, we already wrote the new chapter in our life. The story that maybe the greatest one or the horrible one. Not possible it is would become the happy one or might be the sad one. As the new chapter going on all over and over again, there must be a sacrifice that we need to do. Its between one of this two element that is physical or mentally sacrifice. However, its also possible to have both of this element to become combined as one.

In our life, we will always face with the choices that we have to made. When we talking about sacrifice that always surround us as an important element in order to make us thinks more critically about something that happen. The big question mark is in the question of how should we know that its worth for us to doing sacrifice? This situation would require us to do so many calculation and also assumption in order to make sure that we are sacrificing for the right thing with the right intention. Some of us may thinks that people who sacrificing their precious things in life as a stupid. I thinks when its time has come for us to sacrificing, please do the sacrifice. However, as I always mention before in my previous article, everything in this world must have a barrier or a limit to make sure that it would not cross the line that had been set up. For example, a farmer want to build a farm to put his cow, goat and cattle all together in one place. The farmer must build a barrier or border for all of these animal that is, the cow, goat and the cattle. Can u imagine if there was not border to separate these animal? Off course the cow may step on the cattle which was smaller than it. So in here, we need to have a barrier or wall to limit our sacrifice.

How can we put all this thing together in our daily life as a student. This is the public opinion so, if I doing some mistake in my statement, please tell me so that I can correct it out. Back to the topic, as a student I admit that we have to do lots of sacrifice in order to get the great result or achievement that we wish we can achieve. However, not all the things in this world we can get easily some of them need some effort to achieve it. The effort that we had done is our sacrifice. When the other still sleep or walking around with their friends we sacrifice our time for a while to read a book to get more knowledge. All of those thing can wait but achievement or success would not always waiting for you! You are the one who should chase it our and grab it with both of your hands and make sure that it will always be with you! So here, we can see the need for us, to sacrifice and believe it or not, until now we had already doing sacrifice in our life. Try to count what are things that you had to do which you have to put aside another thing? Not only that, try to think if the result from it is worth the sacrifice that we had made? Take a short time to think and conclude yourself.

Live have to go on

There was too much incident that happen this week along with the problem and trouble that seems stick with me all the day. But I still can smile enjoy listen to my favorite song, go to the library as usual. Its like he want to test me with so much trouble and incident that make me feels weaker and beg for His mercy to help me out. some say that this is the way how he want to teach us and He also want us to thinks on what are the benefit or the moral value that i had learned from the incident. Our live is a story, just like the one that we always see on the television or movie. The main character is us and the director is Him who would determine what will happen next in our life. We just follow the flow of our life. Sometime we need to against the flow that had bring us. That's true because sometime we have to against the flow. Some people say that life is a gamble. I thinks this statement not so right, but I think that life is a fight or we can say it as a war. To win this war, we have to thinks of a good strategy to win the battle. Without a good strategy, we will definitely lose in the battle. Not only we may lost ourselves but it will also cost our pride. However, in life, it has its own up and down. We will not always be in the top. When its time for us to be in the bottom, then we will be there. When we was in the bottom, its doesn't mean that we are weak and can't do anything to save ourselves and bring ourselves back to the top. We still can do something, but the question, what can we do? Off course, we have to try harder to be in the top again. In order to get back to the top, we must remember that we have to do it in the right way. The right way in here is for not to insult other people, do the bad deeds against the people as this will cause another effect to happen. Even we may succeed to be back in the top, but believe me you will not last longer on the top as the other people would try to bring you back to the bottom. I can say that this is the punishment that you have to faced as a result of what you had done to the people in the way to get back in the top.
So, how should we do to get back in the top? We have to do our best in whatever we do in order to get back to our normal life. Remember that the luck and bad luck is the ingredient of our life. Without it, our life become tasteless. Just like when we cooking something, we must put some ingredient in order to make it tasty right? Its the same with our life, we must bear to face difficulties that we feels and take it as the ingredient of life. Thinks that the problem as a fog that will faded away and after the fog had disappear, the sunshine will take over it and there, you will smile brightly as the bright of the sunshine. Other than that, always remember that in the difficulty we have accommodation, and in accommodation, we have difficulty. The best thing we have to do is just continue our life as usual, and we must becoem patient and also pray for guidance from Him who knows more on how to solve the problem.

Responsibilty : Challenge that being burdened on our shoulder

When i talk about responsibility, what would come out in your mind? Maybe the burden? maybe the popularity? and even the admire that may come to you. Now we are in the era of popularity. I thinks its true, as people will try their best to become well know and famous. But become the people on the top of society or organization not as sweet and enjoyable as it may look like. There's a huge burden awaits for us to being lies on our shoulder. Therefore, before you announce ourself to become a candidate of an election or a high post in our society or whatever, we have to look inside of ourself. Did we have the ability to carries the burden that will put on our shoulder? One big question that may appear in our mind that: How hard of How heavy the burden that we bear to hold? I can say that some of the don't like to be a leader as they afraid that they can't do their job as a leader correctly or wisely. Indeed this is true, but the question would come for a leader who had been chosen by the people without he come and naming himself to become a candidate of that post. The Answer for that question is take the responsibility as a reward of gift from God that had choose him to become a leader. Remind that anything that happen in this world happen for their own reason and off course by the His permission. Without His permission, nothing would happen. So what should this leader do is just do their job nicely and wisely as all the deed that we done in here, will being written in our Book Of Deed that will showed to us in the Judgement Day. Instead of the responsibility that the leader had to remember of, there are still some that a leader should remind of that is the post that he get now, not permanently be him forever. We will not live forever as we are not the immortal. When our time come to us, we will be died too. So there's no point for us to become arrogant with our post as people who holds power.